Become a Surrogate Mother

Give the Ultimate Gift

Surrogacy is a beautiful, life-changing process where a woman carries and births a baby for another person or couple who cannot do so on their own.

At The Surrogacy Co., we specialize exclusively in Gestational Surrogacy. This means the embryo is created via in vitro fertilization (IVF) using the intended parent's (or a donor's) egg and sperm. The embryo is then implanted into your uterus. As a gestational surrogate, you have no genetic connection to the baby. If you are a compassionate woman looking to give the gift of family, our founder - a two-time surrogate herself - is here to advocate for you, protect you, and ensure you are treated with the utmost respect and care.

“As a first time surrogate, I can't imagine going through this with a larger agency. The support I've had from Jenna is next level. I always had my questions answered, and knew she was just a call or text away. I was always checked in on and never felt alone!”

Surrogate Mother Requirements

To protect your health, safety, and well-being, our eligibility requirements are strict. These follow the best-practice guidelines established by the American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM):

  • Age & Health: You must be between 21 and 42 years old (experienced surrogates may be older pending physician approval), a non-smoker, and in excellent health with a BMI between 19 and 32.

  • Reproductive History: You must have delivered at least one child full-term without complications. You should have no more than five prior vaginal births or three prior c-sections.

  • Mental Health: You must be free from mental health diagnoses and off all mental health medications for at least 12 months.

  • Lifestyle & Stability: You must lead a stable, low-stress lifestyle in a supportive home environment. You must also be financially stable (certain types of government assistance may render you ineligible).

  • Screenings: You, your spouse/partner, and any adults living in your home must be able to pass a criminal background check. You must also be free from infectious diseases or treatable STIs for the previous 12 months.

  • Transport & Medications: You must have reliable transportation and the ability to attend medical appointments. You must be comfortable administering syringe medications and adhering to a strict protocol leading up to embryo transfer and first trimester. 

The Surrogacy Process: Step-by-Step

Our founder, Jenna Clarke, has been exactly where you are. We designed our process to support you holistically from the first phone call through your postpartum recovery.

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  1. Application & Onboarding

    You submit an application, create your profile, undergo initial background checks, medical record retrieval, and receive your OB/GYN approval to carry a surrogacy pregnancy.

  2. Matching & Benefits

    We present you with intended parent profiles. If you choose to meet and agree it’s a great fit, a Tentative Match Agreement is signed, and your personalized compensation package is finalized.

  3. Medical & Legal Clearance

    You will undergo comprehensive health evaluations, bloodwork, and psychological evaluations. Following this, you will work with your own reproductive attorney to review and sign the surrogacy agreement.

  4. Embryo Transfer

    You will undergo a strict regimen of medications to prepare your body for pregnancy, followed by the embryo transfer at your intended parents' fertility clinic.

  5. Pregnancy

    You will receive prenatal care with your selected care provider, communicate with your intended parents based on your shared preferences, and receive continuous emotional support from our agency and your counselor.

  6. Birth & Post-Birth

    Your baby is placed into your loving arms, parentage orders are finalized, and you celebrate this incredible milestone!

  7. The Fourth Trimester

    You celebrate the incredible gift you just gave! You will receive robust postpartum resources, continued psychological support, and guidance from our experienced doula team to ensure a smooth recovery.

Surrogate Mother Compensation & Benefits

Because we have been surrogates, we advocate for above-average compensation. The Surrogacy Co. intentionally keeps our agency fees low so that more funds can be allocated directly to you.

Here is a framework of the generous benefits package you can expect.

  • $50,000 to $60,000+

  • $250/month prior to pregnancy for medical/legal clearance; $500/month during pregnancy for maternity clothes, massages, physical therapy, housecleaning, etc.

  • 100% of the medical, insurance, and legal costs related to the surrogacy process are covered by the intended parents.

  • You are fully reimbursed for lost wages and childcare costs incurred due to medical appointments or birth recovery.

  • The intended parents will purchase a $750k term life insurance policy for you.

  • You will have regular, paid access to mental health professionals throughout the journey and post-birth.

  • Additional compensation is provided for specific circumstances like embryo transfers, invasive procedures, multiples (eg twins), or a c-section delivery.

FAQs for Surrogate Mothers

It is perfectly normal to have questions about the surrogacy process, and we are here to help! Below are some of the most frequently asked questions we hear from potential surrogate mothers.

  • Surrogacy is an arrangement where a woman (known as a gestational carrier or surrogate mother) carries and delivers a baby for another person or couple, known as the intended parents. Gestational surrogacy involves using an embryo created via IVF from the intended parents’ (or donor) egg and sperm. The surrogate is not genetically related to the baby.

  • Generally, surrogates are women who have had at least one successful pregnancy without complications to full term, and are raising their own child(ren). They must pass medical, psychological, and background screenings to ensure they are suitable candidates.

  • Surrogates often cite the joy of helping others build their families as a primary benefit. Additionally, they receive financial compensation, which can help support their own families.

  • The screening process is robust and includes a comprehensive medical examination, psychological evaluation, and background checks for the surrogate mother and her spouse/ partner. This ensures the surrogate is physically and emotionally prepared for the surrogacy journey.

  • Surrogates are matched with intended parents based on compatibility and mutual preferences. This involves reviewing profiles, meeting potential intended parents, and agreeing to move forward together.

  • Gestational carrier agreements are legally binding contracts that outline the rights and responsibilities of both the surrogate (and her spouse/ partner) and the intended parents. Legal professionals ensure that all parties understand and agree to the terms before proceeding.

  • Surrogates receive comprehensive support from their surrogacy agency and qualified professionals, which includes counseling, medical care, legal assistance, doula advice for pregnancy, birth and postpartum, financial support, and more. This support helps manage the emotional, physical, and logistical aspects of the surrogacy process.

  • The Surrogacy Co. follows best practice guidelines for birth and post-birth transitions from birth mother to intended parents. After delivery, we will ensure a smooth transition from surrogate mother to baby’s loving intended parents. The surrogate mother’s family will get a chance to meet the baby. The surrogate mother will be supported in her postpartum recovery. Legal steps are taken to finalize the intended parents’ parental rights. Everyone celebrates the arrival of this much anticipated gift. You will continue to have postpartum support.

  • Like any pregnancy, surrogacy carries medical risks. However, thorough medical screening and regular prenatal care help minimize these risks. Emotional challenges can also arise, which is why psychological support is available to your throughout the journey.

  • Once you are matched, your benefit package will be confirmed. Surrogates receive base compensation along with additional allowances for self care, lost wages, and other related costs. The funds are kept in an independent escrow account, and overseen by The Surrogacy Co. so you never miss a payment.

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Every surrogacy journey deserves thoughtful guidance, steady support, and genuine care. We are here to walk with you through each step.

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